“He/she ruined my life, and I don’t think I’ll ever forgive him/her. I’m not sure if I’m even strong enough to move on.”
Because once your heart gets your broken, the victims tend to place the blame on the suspects. It’s understandable. He/she don’t deserve you. They ate away your heart, please don’t let them take away your self-worth, your only dignity. Reality: They never ruined your life. You’re letting them ruin it by your own will. The state of depression they put you through is something you have to overcome slowly yourself. Believe it or not, it’s amendable. Don’t let the suspects belittle you. Don’t let them win. Don’t let them make you believe that you have no inner strength, because deep down inside, everyone does have one. You just never searched deep enough to find it. Take your time though, and let your heart heal, because I have been through this before for about 2+ years. I have been in your shoes, and I gradually came out. Remember: Depression is only a state of mind that you keep putting yourself into, meaning it’s temporary if you’re able to fix it.
